People with AD(H)D think differently and personally - I love my AD(H)D, even though it can be very hard and difficult at times - but overall it made me more creative, smarter, funny & quick.
Learn to use how you think and don't let other people put you down - your mind is a gift not a curse!
“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein
Learn to use how you think and don't let other people put you down - your mind is a gift not a curse!
“Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.” - Albert Einstein
Monday, September 7, 2026
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Chew gum!
Chew gum if you're having a panic attack.
The chewing process activates the parasympathetic nervous system via the vagus nerve.
Your primal brain operates on the principle: If predators are nearby, you don't eat. So, when your mouth is continuously making chewing motions, your brain measurably concludes that the situation must be safe and reduces stress hormones.
The chewing process activates the parasympathetic nervous system via the vagus nerve.
Your primal brain operates on the principle: If predators are nearby, you don't eat. So, when your mouth is continuously making chewing motions, your brain measurably concludes that the situation must be safe and reduces stress hormones.
Thursday, August 6, 2026
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When Perimenopause Meets ADHD: 4 Important Insights
Perimenopause is highly impairing for women with ADHD, who experience more severe symptoms and at an earlier age than neurotypical women.
By Nathaly Pesantez | Updated on June 9, 2026
Perimenopause is the most impairing phase of life for women with ADHD. From worsening ADHD symptoms to mood changes and sleep issues to brain fog, fluctuating and decreasing estrogen levels wreak havoc on the lives of women with ADHD, whose brains are far more sensitive to hormonal changes. (In an ADDitude survey, 94% of women said their ADHD symptoms grew more severe during perimenopause and menopause.) Despite this, many neurodivergent women going through this transition still aren’t getting adequate care.
“Perimenopause is when you need the most help, the most support,” said Patricia O. Quinn, M.D., during her May 6 ADDitude webinar, “Perimenopause in Women with ADHD.” “You need to take care of yourself during this time.”
Here’s what all women with ADHD and their health care providers should know about the perimenopausal transition.
Perimenopause Occurs Earlier in Women with ADHD
Perimenopause begins up to 10 years earlier for women with ADHD, who report in one study that their more severe perimenopause symptoms occurred between the ages of 35 and 39, compared to ages 45 and 49 for neurotypical women.
What’s more, women with ADHD report more severe perimenopause symptoms across all categories — somatic (e.g., hot flashes), psychological (e.g., depressive mood), and urogenital (e.g., vaginal dryness) — compared to women without ADHD.
“This is something that needs to be addressed in women with ADHD in addition to their ADHD symptoms,” Quinn said.
Estrogen and Medication Changes May Be Warranted
Research on the most effective treatments for ADHD during perimenopause is limited, but available data and observational evidence suggest that many women benefit from estrogen supplementation and increased stimulant dosages during this phase.
“Estrogen… makes your stimulant more effective,” Quinn said, emphasizing that all treatment decisions must be made in consultation with a doctor who considers the patient’s family medical history and individual risk factors.
Read more on ADDitude.
By Nathaly Pesantez | Updated on June 9, 2026
Perimenopause is the most impairing phase of life for women with ADHD. From worsening ADHD symptoms to mood changes and sleep issues to brain fog, fluctuating and decreasing estrogen levels wreak havoc on the lives of women with ADHD, whose brains are far more sensitive to hormonal changes. (In an ADDitude survey, 94% of women said their ADHD symptoms grew more severe during perimenopause and menopause.) Despite this, many neurodivergent women going through this transition still aren’t getting adequate care.
“Perimenopause is when you need the most help, the most support,” said Patricia O. Quinn, M.D., during her May 6 ADDitude webinar, “Perimenopause in Women with ADHD.” “You need to take care of yourself during this time.”
Here’s what all women with ADHD and their health care providers should know about the perimenopausal transition.
Perimenopause Occurs Earlier in Women with ADHD
Perimenopause begins up to 10 years earlier for women with ADHD, who report in one study that their more severe perimenopause symptoms occurred between the ages of 35 and 39, compared to ages 45 and 49 for neurotypical women.
What’s more, women with ADHD report more severe perimenopause symptoms across all categories — somatic (e.g., hot flashes), psychological (e.g., depressive mood), and urogenital (e.g., vaginal dryness) — compared to women without ADHD.
“This is something that needs to be addressed in women with ADHD in addition to their ADHD symptoms,” Quinn said.
Estrogen and Medication Changes May Be Warranted
Research on the most effective treatments for ADHD during perimenopause is limited, but available data and observational evidence suggest that many women benefit from estrogen supplementation and increased stimulant dosages during this phase.
“Estrogen… makes your stimulant more effective,” Quinn said, emphasizing that all treatment decisions must be made in consultation with a doctor who considers the patient’s family medical history and individual risk factors.
Read more on ADDitude.
Tuesday, June 16, 2026
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Monday, June 1, 2026
RSD and ADHD/CPTSD
How to Control Your Emotions and RSD in Real Time
When RSD hits, it hits hard. Use this guide to manage intense emotions in the moment.
Read the article here.
“How I Dismantle My RSD with Mindfulness”
“I don’t always get it right, and RSD sometimes gets the best of me, but regularly practicing mindfulness has undoubtedly upped my emotional resilience. Most importantly, I’m learning to be gentle with myself.”
Read the article here.
For many people with ADHD, rejection doesn’t just sting; it overwhelms. A passing comment, a shift in tone, or a feeling of being left out can trigger rejection sensitive dysphoria (RSD) — an intense emotional reaction that is rapid, physical, and almost impossible to control.
Learn what is currently understood about RSD, why it remains under-recognized in research, how it shows up in everyday life — and what helps in the moment of emotional overwhelm.
You will learn:
Learn what is currently understood about RSD, why it remains under-recognized in research, how it shows up in everyday life — and what helps in the moment of emotional overwhelm.
You will learn:
- What is happening in the brains and bodies of people with ADHD to make rejection sensitivity feels so intense
- How rejection sensitivity can shape behavior patterns, such as self-abandonment, avoidance, and perfectionism
- What to do in the moment when you feel triggered
- Practical ways to build emotional resilience and raise your threshold for triggers over time
- What partners, family members, and colleagues can do to respond helpfully (and what to avoid)
EXPERT: James Kustow, BMedSci, BMBS, MRCPsych
DATE and TIME: Thursday, June 11, 2026 @ 1pm EDT
This webinar will be recorded. Register here.
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You don't have to pick up the garbage thrown at you!
TRIGGERWARNING, for those who have been traumatized by a church or religious group!
Personally, I love the late Fr. Mark Beard. He is amazing.
Personally, I love the late Fr. Mark Beard. He is amazing.
Wednesday, April 15, 2026
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